Checking in on goals and the boys club

Giveon's album is the gift that keeps giving, and I stopped all my goals.

After spending much of my youth as a digital honey (Cheetah10130110 on AIM and Dizlildyme on Blackplanet/Myspace), I developed tendonitis from typing on the computer too much. I went to physical therapy for months, and one nugget I learned from my therapist was:

“Life happens as you were planning it.”

He said that because I told him my thoughts about when…